The hard way or the easy way

Romantic relationships – are you choosing the hard way or the easy way?

Realizing your dreams – are you choosing the hard way or the easy way (or nothing at all)?

Health/Body – are you choosing the hard way or the easy way?

Career/Business – are you choosing the hard way or the easy way?

Most people default to whatever they saw as they grew up.

In my case, I saw it was hard for my parents and grandparents make money. Until I got into high school my mother was always scraping by. It was common to hear “we can’t afford it”.

I saw that it was hard for my mom to find a good romantic relationship. The ones she did find tended to be tumultuous.

My grandfather died when I was young & my grandmother spent the rest of her life alone (over 25 years).

You don’t have to keep any of your beliefs.

You don’t have to struggle. Unless you want to.

You can pick the hard way.

My clients often feel they have to pick the hard way. They feel they aren’t deserving or worthy if they don’t struggle (for years and possibly decades) first. They feel like maybe they haven’t “earned” it. If it came easy, some how it would make them a bad person.

And you can allow yourself to pick the easy way.

You are already worthy and already deserving.

You are allowed to change your beliefs & live an amazing life you love.

If you are ready to make a change, identify where you are choosing the hard way. Don’t beat yourself up! Start asking yourself how it could be easier in that area. Allow inspiration to come.

Have a great day!
#LiveAnAmazingLifeYouLove